Don't solve your problems. Outgrow them.
By this I specifically mean to increase in wisdom, to get an ever higher perspective. This is nifty because the people who compulsively read blogs tend to be most strongly developed cognitively, that is to say, in their thinking. There are other ways to grow, for instance through heartfelt use of ritual, or enlightened ascesis. But for people like me and probably you (since you are here), wisdom is the key. Not pure theory, it must constantly be grounded back to practical life, otherwise it may run off and become unhinged. There is a lot of that on the web, in case you had not noticed.
By reading the words of the wise, wherever we can find them, we can feel the joy of truth, and are lifted up to a higher perspective. Here we can see clearly what seemed such a maze from below.
It is easy to see that humans have a higher perspective than animals, which are easily trapped and snared. It is easy to see that our perspective widens as we grow older: A toddler cannot see the connection between his stomach pain and recently stuffing himself with sweets, but an adult is aware of such things normally. A teenager may not see the connection between dropping out of school and living a life of poverty, but the connection is there, and poverty is not very romantic and heroic for most people. In the same way, many adults suffer from a low perspective, and this causes problems. Oh no! What shall I do? On one hand I want this, on the other hand I want that. Even at an arm's length, a small coin seems larger than a distant palace.
Simply living and observing calmly will give wisdom eventually. But it can't hurt to get a helping hand from the accumulated wisdom of the past. If it becomes too distant and abstract, double back till you find something that connects to life, your own or that of others. That is what we need it for.
A lot of problems don't need solving: They become trivial, forgettable, once we look at things from a higher point of view.
I still have some problems, so I still need to grow. But other things have fallen by the wayside, and I expect that to continue... if I continue.